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　久久地端详这美丽的合欢树，她轻似烟花、灿若云霞、尽情绽放生命的灿烂和光华！　 都说男人容易动情却不容易钟情，都说女人容易钟情却不容易动情。那么三子的父亲在其爱妻坟上栽了这样的一棵像征爱情永恒的合欢树，是否可以证明男人的钟情！　 为三子有这样钟情于爱妻的父亲而自豪！为这样平凡却又不平凡的阜宁人而骄傲！　 总是这样的真情故事打动我蒙尘的心，总是这样忠贞不渝的爱情打动着一代又一代的人。与之相比，现代人的追求瞬间即逝的激情，显得多么的可笑和无聊啊。　忽然很想在此讲一则一直深藏在心头一个真实的故事：一老者相伴一生的老伴去世了，老者终日寡欢，惨淡度日。人们奇怪的发现老者每日清晨总是背着铺盖卷从外面回来，邻人们追问之，老者道：我老伴胆子小，我怕她一个人在荒郊野外过夜害怕，所以我每晚在她坟头打地铺，去陪她……

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这不是故事，这是打动人心灵的生活的真实！

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<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>三子</i>在2007-9-23 5:56:11的发言：</b>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">[</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">别名</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">] </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">夜合树，马缕花，绒花树，扁担树。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">

</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">【科属】</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">豆科，合欢属。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">

</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">【形态特征】</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">落叶乔木，伞形树冠。叶互生，伞房状花序，雄蕊花丝尤如缕状，半白半红，故有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">马缕花</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">“</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">绒花</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">”</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">之称。另外有大叶合欢，叶大，花银白色，有香气，我国广州较多；花粉红色，华南各省。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">

</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">【生态习性】</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">长江、珠江流域较多。阳性树种，好生于温暖湿润的环境；耐严寒，耐干旱及瘠薄。夏季树皮不耐烈日。在砂质土壤上生长较好。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">

</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">【花期】</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;"> 6</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">～</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">月。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">

</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">【栽培管理】</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;"> 10</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">月采种，翌年春播种。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">～</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">4</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">年后幼树主干高达</span><chmetcnv wst="on" tcsc="0" numbertype="1" negative="False" hasspace="False" sourcevalue="2" unitname="米"></chmetcnv><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">2</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">米</span><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><chmetcnv></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">以上时，可进行定干修剪。选上下错落的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">个侧枝作为主枝，用它来扩大树冠。冬季对</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">3</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">个主枝短截，在各主枝上培养几个侧枝，彼此互相错落分部，各占一定空间。当树冠扩展过远，下部出现光秃现象时，要及时回缩换头，剪除枯死枝。因萌芽力弱，不耐修剪。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">

</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">【应用】</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">
</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">花美，形似绒球，清香袭人；叶奇，日落而合，日出而开，给人以友好之象征。花叶清奇，绿荫如伞，植于堂前供观赏。作绿荫树、行道树，或栽植于庭园水池畔等，都是极好的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana;">　</span>　　　　　　
</div>　　　电影《小花》插曲： “世上有朵美丽的花，那是青春吐芳华，铮铮硬骨绽花开，滴滴鲜血染红它……一路芬芳满山崖……”　这花就是“合欢”，也叫“雪绒花”，清香宜人，绰绰动人。　

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　雪绒花？雪绒花！

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